We all need to be honest with ourselves in every area of our lives when
it comes to evaluating how things really are and where we want to go. Roping’s
no different, and every roper needs to ask himself, “Am I willing to change to
become a better roper?” The thing I see in so many ropers is they talk the talk,
like they want to get better. But what keeps so many people at certain levels
their whole career, in my eyes, is an unwillingness to change.
It seems crazy to me when someone stays a No. 2 roper all his or her life. How
can that be any fun? Why not study your game, go to a school and work at it? It
seems to me that just about any activity I can think of is more fun the better I
get at it. Roping is no different.
I see so many people with mental blocks on certain aspects of roping. They might
refuse to handle their slack a certain way, or to feed their rope a certain way.
I’ve actually seen ropers who won’t even try something new. They put up a wall
and refuse, saying, “This is how I do it.” People get in a comfort
zone and
decide it’d be too hard to change.
A lot of people aren’t willing to step over a boundary to change for the better.
But they’re a No. 2 anyway, so I don’t see them having anything to lose. You
might see experimenting as a setback, but it’s only a temporary, short-term
situation. I hate to see people fall into that trap, where they aren’t willing
to try something new that would make them better in the long run. I’m not
criticizing lower-numbered ropers here, I’m just being honest and trying to help
you get better.
There are all different kinds of ropers. There are coffee-shop ropers, who are
hobbyists. A lot of those people go to a roping school for a conversation piece.
Then there are people who come to try and prove that they can outrope us. Oddly
enough, others come to a school with no intention of absorbing any of the
information. They can afford it, and just go through the motions. They look at
it mostly as lots of runs. A small percentage does listen to everything we say
and will try it all. They’re willing to change, and are the students you see the
most progress in.
As an instructor, it’s really frustrating to see people who aren’t willing to go
through all the steps it takes to progress to the top. I’ve gone through it all
myself, and I don’t understand people not being willing to do the same, if they
truly want to improve.
There’s always a chance that when you try new things it’ll get your game as you
know it off for a while until you get the new-and-improved way ironed out. You
have to be willing to go out on that limb for the greater good. I’ve heard it a
thousand times: “I was roping everything before I came to this school.” But if
you rope verything, you aren’t a No. 2. Again, be honest with yourself. It’s the
only way to get there.
Taking your roping to the next level also involves horsemanship and the mental
game. You have to be willing to learn in those areas, too, in order to be
stronger. It was bone-crushing to me in years past to hear criticism about my
horsemanship. It’s true, though, I did ask a horse for his life every run
earlier in my career. But I’ve worked at it, and have tried really hard to
improve in that area.
I was a world champion, and was willing to listen to constructive criticism. I
could have bowed up and blown all those comments and all that feedback off, but
it was true. There was room for improvement, so I took that on.
Clay used to have more of a temper with horses, too, but he’s become a great
horseman. He’s learned, like I have, that you can get a lot more done by taking
it easy on one and allowing him to enjoy his job than by forcing him to do it.
We all want instant success. I’ve played a little golf, and what I’m talking
about here applies to everyday life, too. So much of it is discipline, and
that’s what so many people lack. You need to discipline yourself to do things
right. If you aren’t exactly sure what the right thing is, get the help you need
from someone who does know. I play golf two or three times a year, and when I
took my kids golfing the other day I noticed I was giving them advice, as if I
had any business thinking I was a golf instructor. Roping’s the same way.
Get help from a true expert.

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During the rodeo in Clovis (Calif.), I had a couple days with nothing to do. I
decided to get a couple buckets of balls. The main thing I decided to
concentrate on was not hitting the ball hard, just hitting it as straight as
I could. I shot 11 over par, which is awesome for me.The next day, I did the
same thing. I wasn’t worried about the score, just about hitting the ball
straight. I shot 11 over par again. I was just so amazed by what happened when I
didn’t try to do too much, and just stuck to trying to do things right. The next
step in golf for me, if I decide to take it that far, would be some professional
help and getting better at the mechanics of the sport.What I’m saying here
relates directly back to the game plan when I roped with Clay. “Around the horns
and two feet will win you so much money”—that was our motto. Do that day in
and day out, and you’ll be a pretty successful team roper.
It’s easy to abandon the fundamentals. If you don’t have instant success, you
fudge and find a way to make it work. It takes a lot of willpower to do things
right.